Summer Is Almost Behind Us
Sunday, August 29th, 2010Each and every year as the new school year approaches, we are reminded of how quickly summer has come and gone. Labor Day will be here soon enough, and then the lazy crazy days of summer will soon be a fleeting memory. Ah, if only that were true. No fleeting memories on this end. Each and every day since June 18th is etched in my brain. When a diagnosis of Cancer hits a family, there are no fleeting memories, no easy passing of time, and no going back to the way things were before the summer. For the average person, you look back and remember, reevaluate, and revisit the summer that has gone by. The activities that occupied your time during the summer months are thought about when the new work and school seasons commence. You look back and smile about that great vacation you took or all the things you accomplished when you stayed home and tackled many household chores. Seasons are not only the markings of the change in environment but ways to move from one period of time to the next. The end of summer tells us school is just around the corner and the fall holidays will begin soon enough. Our summer days of 2010 will stay with us for a very long time to come. We will carry them into the next season like baggage you cannot check. Too much has happened, too much to process and too much to plan for the future. Unlike Summer Camp, or a European vacation, or summer classes, our experiences this summer cannot be encapsulated in the summer of 2010. The experiences we have encountered and the struggles Noa Maya has endured will not be behind us when Labor Day Weekend arrives. Watching very carefully as children return to school, including our own two grandsons, we see the transition once again from summer to fall. Adjustments are made on all levels, as everyone does their very best to acclimate back into their comfortable routine they lived prior to the summer months. As human beings we need that and crave it. Consistency, predictability, and familiarity are all comfort areas for each and every one of us. We all need that added reassurance on some level in our lives. The calendar says we’ve moved on, but summer is not really behind us.
by
Susan koslovsky